How to Help a Loved One with Brain Disease
The Complexity of Brain Disease
Diseases like dementia and brain tumors are particularly cruel—not just because they rob the individual of memories, speech, or personality, but because they change relationships. A spouse becomes a nurse. A parent becomes a stranger. It’s a slow grieving process that unfolds while the person is still alive.
As a radiologist, I use tools like MRI, PET, and CT scans to detect brain disease as early as possible. But even with early intervention, families need more than diagnosis. They need emotional guidance, practical support, and above all—acknowledgment.
How to Help a Loved One with Brain Disease
If you’re caring for someone with a cognitive or neurological illness, here are a few guiding principles I’ve learned from both science and the stories of countless families:
1. Routine Is Your Friend
The brain thrives on consistency. Regular routines help reduce confusion, anxiety, and agitation—especially in patients with Alzheimer’s or dementia.
2. Music Can Be a Bridge
Even when memory fades, musical memory often remains. Singing or listening to favorite songs can evoke emotion and spark moments of recognition.
3. Speak Simply, With Patience
Use short, clear sentences. Give your loved one time to respond. Repetition may feel frustrating—but for them, it's a lifeline.
4. Protect Their Dignity
Always address your loved one directly. Even if their cognition is impaired, they deserve respect, eye contact, and kindness.
5. Take Care of Yourself, Too
You cannot pour from an empty cup. Seek respite care, join a support group, or simply ask for help. Burnout is real—and you matter, too.
Resources for Caregivers
Family Caregiver Alliance – www.caregiver.org: Offers resources, education, and advocacy for caregivers nationwide.
AARP Caregiving Portal – www.aarp.org/caregiving: A comprehensive hub of tools and guides, including legal and financial planning.
ARCH National Respite Network – www.archrespite.org: Helps connect families with local respite care services.
Well Spouse Association –www.wellspouse.org: Support for partners caring for a chronically ill or disabled spouse.
My core message.
If you or a loved one is concerned about dementia or Alzheimer's disease, don’t procrastinate. Get it checked out. The stress of not knowing is harmful to your health. Get a PET/CT scan to either alleviate your worry or help determine the proper treatment in time. Remember, early detection is the best treatment.
If this message finds anyone looking for more answers, feel free to call me at imagingwest directly at +1-914-592-0218.
Dr. Christopher Riedl
